The pandemic has created a host of issues for co-parents of minor children, from concerns about shared parenting time when one parent remains unvaccinated, disputes over when a child should return to in-person schooling, to parents disputes over whether to vaccinate minor children. In many of these cases that have made their way before a judge, the resulting decisions will pertain to specific issues such as guidelines for parenting time, or the question of vaccination against Covid. However, in a recent case before the Court of Queen’s Bench of Alberta, the positions of the mother and father were so opposed that the Court granted one parent complete control over all medical decisions pertaining to the child in question.
The parents in the case at hand, TLM v. JTM, were in disputes over their child’s medical care since April 2021. The parents were formerly adult interdependent partners, and they shared one child, a nine-year-old son. The child had asthma and was also diagnosed with B-Cell Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia in 2019. Since his diagnosis, he had been consistently undergoing a lengthy chemotherapy treatment protocol which was set to continue until September of this year.
The child was pronounced to be in remission in 2019, however, ongoing treatment was recommended to prevent a relapse of the illness. The child received in-person treatment once every three months at the hospital and took an oral chemotherapy capsule daily under the care of each of his parents. The parents shared both parenting time and decision-making ability.
In April of 2021, the mother applied to revoke the father’s decision-making ability with respect to their son’s medical care after the father began to express a reluctance to follow the prescribed medical protocol. The mother submitted that the father claimed cancer was “fake” and had been invented solely to enable pharmaceutical companies to make money. He wanted to stop the daily medication and seek treatment from a naturopath instead. At the time, the court chose to continue shared decision-making ability but made an order that the mother could have daily FaceTime contact with the child when he was in his father’s care, to ensure he took his medication.
The child’s medical team, including his family doctor and his oncologist, strongly recommended he be vaccinated against Covid-19 due to his immunocompromised status. The father objected to vaccination and went so far as to tell the mother that if she were to have their son vaccinated, she would be “harming [the father’s] property”. The father also shared his negative views of the vaccine with the child, resulting in the child’s fear of getting vaccinated. The mother brought a new application to vary the previous order by removing the father’s decision-making ability over their son’s medical treatment.
In order to vary the existing order, the mother had the onus of demonstrating that there had been a material change in circumstances since April 2021. The court found that the mother satisfied this requirement in the following ways:
Since the original order, the father had also breached his duty to follow the advice of the child’s doctors, by missing a scheduled appointment at the hospital just after the December holidays.
Ultimately, a child’s best interests will be the determining factor in any decision pertaining to a child’s wellbeing under s. 18 of Alberta’s Family Law Act. In conducting the best-interests analysis, the court considered that the National Advisory Committee on Immunization had strongly recommended that all children aged 5-11 with conditions that compromise their immune systems be vaccinated against Covid-19. While the court held that the vaccine was not a “magic bullet”, medical experts had come to the conclusion that it would give an immunocompromised child the best chance of survival in the face of the ongoing pandemic.
Further, the court took the origin of the father’s claims into consideration, as well as the fact that the father had created fear around the vaccine for his child:
The Father’s position with respect to vaccination is based on misinformation and conspiracy theories. His willingness to share this with the Child and cause him to fear the vaccine, further demonstrates that he is not able to make decisions in the Child’s best interests…The Child is young and vulnerable. He also loves his Father. I also have no doubt the Father loves his son. However, I conclude that the Father’s actions in this regard take advantage of the Child’s impressionability and are contrary to his emotional and psychological safety, security, and well-being.
Given the above considerations, the court agreed to order that the child should be vaccinated per his doctor’s recommendations and took the additional step of awarding sole decision-making ability to the mother with respect to his health and medical decisions.
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